To follow someone else’s advice and then blame it on that one for given the wrong advice, does not work dear friends. You only have responsibility for yourself. Did you follow someone else’s advice, it was your choice. Everything you do or don´t do is your own choice. It’s always “you” that finally decides what to do. As long as you decide that this is the best choice for you and those who are around you, it is a good choice. Above all, it should feel good all over. Then you know it’s right.